Module 1
Belonging: All My Relations
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Creation Story

Long ago, long before the coming of the great flood, the Cocoon Man floated in a time beyond measuring. For years without number, he floated, until finally, he began to become aware of himself. And as one becomes aware of oneself, one becomes aware of one's limitations, and so the Cocoon Man began to shrink. As he became more himself, he grew smaller and smaller, until his skin began to slough off, and this excess skin became the Land. The Cocoon Man stepped onto the Land that had once been part of himself, and felt himself compelled to walk in the direction of the East. He walked East, until there was no more East to walk, and discovered an infant. The Cocoon Man did not want to leave the baby alone, fearing he would die of exposure, so he wove a large basket and placed the infant in the basket.

Now the Cocoon Man felt a need to go South, and so he walked South, until there was no more South to walk, where he discovered a little boy, about four years old. Not wanting to abandon the child, the Cocoon Man picked the child up and placed him in the basket.

The Cocoon Man now felt a need to go West, so he walked West, until there was no more West to walk. And here he discovered a teenage boy. Now he was used to this, and placed the teenager into the basket.

Now the Cocoon Man felt a need to go North, and so he walked North until there was no more North to walk. And there he discovered a young man. And the young man said, "It was I who whispered into your inner ear and suggested you make this world. It was I who whispered into your inner ear and suggested you walk to the East, to the South, to the West, to the North. I was that Baby, that Child, that Adolescent. And if you don't believe me, then look inside your basket."

And so the Cocoon Man looked inside his basket. And it was empty.

--Traditional Warm Springs story

Notes: Can be used to discuss how one's experiences growing up "whisper into our inner ear," and influence our behaviors.

On another level, those experiences are indeed there, but also "not there"... the "basket was empty." Sometimes the burdens we bear we may not have to continue to be carried.

Story of the Seasons

by the
Confederated Tribes of the Warm Springs Reservation of Oregon

Long, long ago there were many kinds of Seasons. They were very much like people. They could talk and laugh. They played games. They even worked.

They had many council meetings. They would meet together and make many rules. They changed their rules all the time.

When it was time to work, each Season did what he wanted to do. The Frost would come and all the Earth would freeze. Sometimes the Snow came and it was cold. Then the Sun would shine and melt all the Snow away.

Sometimes the Sun was very hot. The Earth would turn brown and dry up. Everything on the land began to die. This was not good.

"We will make a rule to work together," said the Seasons. "People will soon be put on this land. We must get ready for them."

The council meeting started. All the Seasons came together. The meeting went on for many moons. Many ideas were put forth.

The North Wind, who was powerful, wanted to be the leader. All the other Winds said, "No!"

"Let us make a big circle so everyone will have a voice and make an equal stand. We want no beginning or end--just a big, round circle.

Finally, the Sun, Moon and Stars were called to the big council fire. "You shall decide for us," said the Seasons. "How can we be placed in the big circle? We don't want to harm anyone."

The Stars had all the Seasons promise they would never try to leave their places. That is the way the Seasons were put in order. But once in awhile, they get out of order. It might Rain, Hail or Snow in the summertime. Sometimes Frost comes too early, and you see the Stars moving fast in the sky. The Stars are trying to keep Frost from coming too soon. The Stars work hard to keep the Seasons in order.

The Winds help bring Rain, Hail, Snow, Fog and Clouds to the Earth at different times of the year.

And so it goes. The Sun is still ruler over all the Seasons.

Warm Springs Education Laboratory, "Story of Seasons", Portland, OR, 1978. Reprinted with Permission.

Spirit Houses

Many tribal communities have a tradition of a specific place to go for meditation and renewal--this may be in the form of a Sweat Lodge, a woman's House of Moon time, a sacred spring, etc. During the time of inward looking and belonging, participants can choose at any time to go to one of the Spirit Houses to "take a break" from the formal presentations and exercises. Participants will be able to sit quietly and process through their experiences, or since some people think better while "doing something," the Spirit Houses will have various materials to make things. Participants can experiment with different forms of renewal to see what works best.

The Spirit Houses will also be a place for people to work on their family charts, or come to terms with some of the emotions they may encounter during the different exercises.

Gallery of Stars1

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